Topics without confession
Private prompts for the parts of your life you can’t rehearse out loud. No audience. No group discussion. No performance.
Browse by recognition, not diagnosis. Start with the topic that feels uncomfortably accurate.
Recognition first
Do you recognise yourself in any of these?
This is not about being dramatic. It is about being precise. People get stuck for different reasons, and your reason determines what kind of structure you need.
You keep replaying a person, a past, or an alternative life, even when the present is functional.
- You overthink someone who should feel insignificant by now
- You narrate the same argument to yourself in different tones
- You feel embarrassed by what your mind keeps returning to
You do not relate to casual detachment. Attachment feels serious, costly, and hard to unwind.
- You bond, then you carry it for years
- You feel loyal even when no one asked you to be
- You fear choosing wrong more than staying stuck
Your values and your desires clash. You feel the weight of responsibility, religion, or identity.
- You do not want to betray your own standards
- You feel trapped between empathy and self-respect
- You keep negotiating with yourself instead of deciding
You are high-functioning in life, but privately distracted by one unresolved attachment or story.
- You perform competence while feeling internally split
- You manage everyone else, but not your own mind
- You want language for what you cannot say out loud
If you recognised yourself strongly, start with a theme below. Then test that theme under a lens. When you need depth and structure, go to Access and choose Option A, B, or C.
Browse themes
Each theme is a door into the same core work: recognising cost, mapping trade-offs, and producing a position you can stand behind.
Attachment and ambivalence
When you want closeness and distance at the same time.
Often paired with Hollie or Alex as a starting lens.
Integrity and desire
When attraction conflicts with identity, responsibility, or faith.
Often paired with Esther for load, and Jacob for consequence.
Boundaries and consequences
When choices have costs you cannot outsource.
Often paired with Jacob as a consequence lens.
Secrecy and self-respect
When privacy becomes a cage instead of a boundary.
Often paired with Esther for the internal split.
Repetition
When you keep recreating the same ending with different people.
Often paired with Alex for pattern logic, then Hollie for cost.
Decision paralysis
When thinking becomes a way to avoid choosing.
Often paired with Alex as a threshold lens.
The public site shows a curated set of themes. The sharper material lives inside the portal.
What to do next
If you want a clean start, choose Option A. If you need structure to decide, choose Option B. If the stakes are high and you need deep synthesis, choose Option C.